Positive Development Story - Return of India’s “Missing” Women

Bhairavi is a healthy baby girl born of proud Indian parents at six pounds and two ounces. Had she been conceived a year earlier she might have ended up dead. Another possible victim added to the 50 million “missing” women of India as described by the UN and Nobel Laureate Amartya Sen.

The Delhi government’s cash initiative last year for families with a female infant seems to have at least saved one life but is it cause enough to celebrate just yet?

Revolution of Unequal Measure?

The 9600 Rupee (USD 210) government bonuses offered to parents for every new girl child born in the last year is touted as a critical measure leading to this year’s improved gender birth ratio. Coming from deplorable conditions wherein only five years ago only 860 female births took place for every 1000 male, the current year’s 1008 female to 1000 male birth ration can be considered a revolution.

“I wouldn’t call it a revolution, “says Santosh Pathak, a Statistical Officer at the Directorate of Economics and Statistics, “the spike is most probably a reaction to the cash incentives and less of a sociological indicator.” Even the United Nations Population Fund has unequivocally stated that “the figures are impossible” given that the mean “natural” ratio is not more than 965 females to every 1000 males.

But even as the government is preparing to set up cradles throughout municipal offices of the nation to save unwanted female infants, the survivors of generations past remember the futility of such government policies.

“I was asked to get rid of my baby when the doctors told my husband that I was going to have a daughter,” says Shanti Bhattnagar, 63, an office clerk, “I refused. That was nearly the end of our marriage.” The Medical Termination of Pregnancy Act, 1971 had just been passed and was being regularly flouted by citizens and doctors alike. “My husband was convinced by his sisters and our daughter was born.”

Considering how her daughter turned out, Shanti is more than jubilant. Not only did her daughter succeed in becoming a doctor, she is the first member of their family to go abroad. “A mighty feat for a girl, as some say,” remarks Shanti with a proud smile.

In Search of Conscionable Reform

The world has changed for women as evidenced by the UN’s far encompassing Convention on the Elimination of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW). With over 120 countries ratifying the charter and over thirty years in effect, the Convention still aspires to ensure absolute equality and conscionable accountability.

India is yet to accept all articles of the convention according to Sunila Abeysekera, the head of International Women’s Rights Action Watch (IWRAW) South Asia. Rightly arguing the futility of partial enforcement of rights the IWRAW is faced with the Indian government’s hesitation.

“What good is CEDAW if I can be forced into marriage?” says Sakina Suterwala, 19, a Muslim minority student of political sciences, “The government in its zeal not to infringe on minority rights is condemning half its constituency. We want to be women first, minorities later.”

The rising consensus among NGOs and the youth lies in the support of restructuring mindsets rather than manufacturing opportunities. “The women empowerment schemes of the last 30 years have been hogwash,” says Rama Nagarjun, a professor of sociology, “India is a stubborn country of traditions that have never quiet been washed off their past sins. The post-colonial attitude has only made things worse with a supposed ‘return to roots’ approach on the part of the rural population. And that is where most of these atrocities still happen. Who cares about Delhi?”

The government has provided opportunities in the form of free education, favourable loans and various medical facilities to women across the country. But when compared across the world, India has stepped down a rank since last year to 114 out of 134 in gender equality. The only sub-index where it shows strength, is ironically, political empowerment; active politics with inactive governance.

Nagarjun laments how any real change in the mindsets is yet to be seen. “Boys are still preferred and it isn’t so much right as it is fashionable for a girl child to have a successful education, only if it is to garnish her marital resume.”

But many still look beyond the government for answers.

“Our World, Our Future”

“When Indira Gandhi became the Prime Minister I cried”, says Julia De’ Souza, 68, a retired school teacher, “I was 25 and I believed I could do anything I wanted with my life. And I like to believe that I did.”

“I was lucky I suppose,” she says, “my husband allowed me to study; I had children, made a home but I never relinquished my spirit. I see too many bright girls doing that today. With all the opportunities they have before them I just can’t understand why...”

The city may have just responded to the economics of government policy in its statistical spike or perhaps this year might be the first of the many that marks some revelatory shift in the way that the Indian society behaves. Looking towards the future Julia’s 19 years old grand-daughter Stephanie is less subdued and a full measure more tenacious in her outlook on society.

“Women have changed, some in more ways than one. Be it in the bedroom or the board room, women of Delhi, and yes India have come a long way.” She says with fiery passion, “And it could have been much worse considering our heritage. But we have always been patient and beings of faith. I have faith that our world, our future will not be impeded by parochial traditions and economic burdens.”

But as is the case when we consider matters of faith, it is but in the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen, that we may find the millions of missing women making their return in the generations of tomorrow.

Get Rich Quick: Amassing wealth at 21

When Abhishek Rai turns 21 next year he is going to be a millionaire. Some of this credit should go to the foresight of his parents. But the remarkable fact is that all the decisions leading up to his fortune were his own.

“I received a huge amount, nearly thirty thousand rupees from my relatives for my upanayana ceremony (a Hindu coming of age ritual) when I was eleven,” recounts Abhishek.

“We knew it would be tempting for him to spend all the money on frivolities,” says Dr. Rai, 56, a practicing pediatrician in Kolkata, “but thought better of him to learn the responsibilities and opportunities that come with money. So we opened a fixed deposit account in his name.”

As his 15th birthday came closer Abhishek became more anxious to spend the money. So his parents made a “deal” with him. Dr. Rai’s “deal” with his son involved him having to learn a thing or two about investing.

The idea of easy money and no manual labor was a great incentive to invest says Abhishek. Since then he made all the choices with regards to which companies to invest in and has almost made a career out of that deal.

Abhishek is soon going to graduate with a degree in accounting & finance ready for business school the tuition for which will be paid for by his investments.

“To earn without work is sinful,” promulgates Dr. Rai. “But I’m glad Abhishek caught on to the art of investing and has made smart choices.”

Smart Investors, Young Investors

Regardless of the age, money is serious business. The desire to be wealthy and successful is imprinted on every young mind. Most middle class families leave education as the only inheritance for their children. It isn’t surprising then that young people today are willing to make sure they can live off the interest on that very inheritance.

“Our college has an investment club which maintains a virtual stock market of real world companies,” says Mudita Mithel, 19, of H. R. College of Commerce and Economics in Mumbai, “We learn how to analyze a company; its operations, plans, everything.”

With colleges starting their own investment clubs and young people more interested in the stock market the number of casual yet serious minded young investors has seen an uptake.

“Investing isn’t gambling as most young people think,” clarifies Prakash Shukla, 31, a Dalal Street broker, “True investing is about planting the right seed at the right time in the right soil. Unfortunately most people think only in the short term and suffer losses.”

The key idea behind successful investment is doing so for the long run. Allowing your money to work for you takes time which most young people aren’t willing to give.

Shahrukh Shah, an engineering student in Mumbai handles the investments of his and three friends who all invest in the stock market. “We have no hang ups about delaying our gratification,” says Shahrukh Shah, 20, “We all have to run in the rat race but by saving instead of spending now we may just not have to run that long.”

As more young people make the foray into well informed and disciplined investing, their earning potential increases manifold bettering their chances at financial freedom later in life.


Some Tips

Simple steps to setting up your own investment base:

1. Get a PAN card. All earnings, salaried or capital gain, need to be registered for tax purposes. So a PAN card becomes your doorway to becoming an earning member of society.

2. Open a savings and DMAT account. It is a legal requirement for investing that makes all your dealing virtually accessible online for your convenience.

3. Do the research. Nothing worth having comes easy. Look into the financial broad sheets about the ups and downs in the market. Also refer to financial news and perhaps get a consult from a broker.

4. Buy broad. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket with a single company or a single type of investment. Diversify with equity, mutual funds, commodities and foreign exchange. The greater your spread, the greater the gains and stability.

5. And if you’re really serious then learn the lingo. What are derivatives? Futures? Swaps? The many devices used to trade can often make the difference to a serious investor about how much and how fast they make their fortune.

“There is a whole world worth exploring.” says Ankit Bharadwaj, 52, a self-employed “wealth consultant” and former associate at ABN Amro, “My three rules are – invest in a fundamentally sound company, invest whatever you have as no amount is too small and most importantly take a little bit out every once in a while and have a good time!

Festival Assignment - DurgaFest: The Commercialization of a Deity

By Alex Marchand and Samir Alam
The streets of Chittaranjan Park, New Delhi are nowhere to be seen as thousands of people crowd the space in their final farewell to Durga Ma (Goddess Mother). Amongst the bright lights and smoke that marks the end of the four day celebration of Durga Puja; the entire Bengali borough of C.R. Park is aglow with festivity. After journeying through endless rows of devotees and processions the awe inspiring plaster homage of Ma Durga makes itself visible in its pandal (worship tent) abode.

The massive statue is not only a great attraction but also a source of joy and prayer to many. As it over sees the dogmatic worship of the people below littered around are pundits (priests) who adorn the statue with crowns of flowers. Auspicious tikkas are bestowed on all those who come up to see Her, as a lively festival of dance is underway on a stage nearby, captivating the audience - “in the honor of the Mother, the Druga goddess”.

The scene almost seems stereotypical of what tourist guides proclaim to be the Indian experience and subsequently scores of Westerners travel to see. And yet something is clearly amiss.

“Festive Discounts” and other “Special Offers”

Significant spaces in and around the pandals are littered with commercial stalls. Miniature shops sell everything from insurance, televisions and bank accounts to toys for little kids.
Loud and obnoxious billboards, either in English or Bengali, are seen at every step. And as the last few weeks have turned into the final days, the advertisers have kept themselves busy by offering “Festive Discounts” and “Special Offers” in light of the religious celebrations.
And in an ironically unifying manner it is not only Indian companies that are represented here. Numerous multinationals also fall in line and attempt to gain as much as they can from the religion. When asked, Joy Bondyopadhyay, a representative at a telecommunications product stall explains:

“To organize such a grand festival one needs resources. One needs sponsorship and we are here to help the organizers. It also provides an occasion to promote our company; as it is people tend to shop and spend more at the time of Durga Puja.”

A man sitting at the Ramakrishna Mission, Ashim Tanguluy, a senior veteran of Durga Puja celebrations insists:

“We come here each Durga Puja. The business belongs to the festival, go to the villages of inner Bengal and you will see that it is exactly the same.”

When asked about the conflict between business and spirituality he replies, “No! Enthusiasm is always there. It is a celebration of joy; we celebrate the return of the Mother!”

“One comes here for the entertainment”

There are children running around with balloons and cotton candy. Traditional elegantly colored saris find place alongside tight jeans and t-shirts. The shouts of street vendors are echoing down to the unsuspecting crowds. It seems more of a street party rather than a religious festival.

“The people coming here are very sincere, they come here to pray” assures Samrat, 21 year old business student from Assam. But when one asked to explain the story behind the festival he becomes far less loquacious:

“The Durga goddess beat the demon and then… uh… I do not know much more, it is complicated.”

Until he finally admits: “Yes it is true, one comes here for the entertainment.”

And from a distance the sound of a Bengali rock group can be heard as they replace the dancers in the honor of Ma Durga.

Dangers of Diwali in Delhi

New Delhi: Traditionally a festival of lights, Diwali has now become an excuse for renegade urban bombardment. “It is how Diwali has always been,” says Susheel Gupta, a veteran cracker salesman “people have always wanted bigger and louder explosions.”

However fire-crackers available today are more dangerous than ever before nearly similar to homemade explosives. Easily available to young children at local markets these crackers are a serious cause of concern.

“We like to scare people by throwing crackers near them”, says Abhilash, 13, of Defence Colony “but we make sure nobody gets hurt.” In a climate tense with security concerns, terrorist attacks and such juvenile danger to the public why aren’t these explosives regulated by the government?

Such a blasé disregard for the capitol’s safety is true cause for concern as Diwali allows for easy hoarding for such armaments for later use by dangerous organizations in effect turning Delhi into a minefield.

Israel and Palestine: A Theatre of the Absurd

An Editorial

“Nothing to be done.”

So says Estragon, beginning Samuel Beckett’s post modern magnum opus which simply sums up the state of human kind. He might as well have been speaking of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict; a story of two neighbors perennially awaiting salvation in their existential flux.

Since 1948 the conflict in the region has supplied academics, policy makers, arms manufacturers and even journalists with their livelihood. With displays of support and rationalizations filling numerous libraries since then, the solution is nowhere at hand. Lost in the myriad history of diplomacy and military conflict, all that is left now are semantics and power plays.

But the hopes of the people (on both sides) that live and function daily are not lost. Each side had faith in some Greater Power (not Arafat or Sharon) to lead them into peace if not conquest. However the lesser powers leading the two nations have never held any such faith. Be it the pre-emptive attack in 1965 by Israel which annexed Gaza, Golan Heights and East Jerusalem or the Camp David meet in 2000 where even a Nobel Peace Prize proved insufficient to persuade Arafat to be reasonable and fair. The people of both nations, in however so ever varied degrees of duress, have had to accept fear and anxiety as a way of life.

With further reaching conflicts tracing back to biblical history one thing is for certain, that this spectacle of stubborn and conceited righteousness on both sides of the border does no favors for the many innocents that die under it. A true theatre of the absurd; wherein on both sides the people are but waiting for some sign of peace and stability – however one wonders if at all it serves any purpose.

Is Godot ever coming to Gaza?

Etc. in 3 Parts

1

These random whispers,
Haunting spells
Of less sanity
And pervading thoughts

Meandering my conscious mind,
A valley barren cold
The mind can ask questions
To the bodies wisdom old.

2.

Think dark thoughts
Heavy curtains of satin
Soft and tempting
A luscious and sinful sight
Dark thoughts
Like rumbling clouds
Of night breeze
And khol laden eyes
Their mystery in darkness lies

Thoughts under shadow
Under effect, not of light
Of unseen frights
Dark thoughts
Earthly delights

3.

A calm embrace
Of familiar arms,
In familiar places
From familiar faces

Is not enough
To quench this thirst
Unwittingly demands
An infinite well of sympathy

To drink, to satiate
This pain lost in dilution
Of your forgiveness
Love - the final solution

Mind the Lyrics


"...Had he come to walk among the Williamsburgers of his kingdom
And like the burghers of Calais will a sacrifice be demanded?
To offer up our dreams and beg for mercy empty-handed?
And hapless in our hipness crowded 5 to an appartment
Relegate our dreams to hobbies and deny our disappointment
Cause The Stones in '65 want total satisfaction, kid
But The Stones in '69 see grace in just getting what you need
But if that's a victory then I'd hate to see what I'd look like defeated..."

"...Where us noble starving artists are striving to feed our ego
Our mothers like our music our our friends come to our shows
And if our friends become successful, we'll consider them our foes..."

"...Is it worth being an artist or an indie-rock star, or are you better off without it?'
Cause I mean maybe the world would be better if we were all just uncreative drones,
No dead child, hood dreams to haunt us, a decent job, a decent home,
And if we have some extra time we could do real things to promote peace,
Become scientists or history teachers or un-corrupt police at least,..."

"... was starring into his sunglasses and I was really freakin' out i was like,
Steamboat Willie Bonnie Prince of all this shit, you're like the king of a certain genre
But even you must want to quit like if you hear a record by Bob Dylan or Neil Young or whatever
You must start thinkin' 'People like me, but i won't be that good ever'
And I'm sure the thing is probably Dylan himself too stayed up some nights
Wishing he was as good as Ginsberg or Camus
And he was like 'Dude, I'm such a faker, I'm just a clown who entertains
and these fools who pay for my crap, they just have pathetic punny brains
and Camus probably wished he was Milton too or whatever, you know what i'm sayin'?!'
..."

"...But whether it was him or not I couldn't forget the words he'd spoken
'Artists are pussies', like we're wusses or we end up getting fucked
And other kinds of folks are dicks, tall, smart and strong
And born to fuck us up I know,
It sounds really sexist and stupid,
It's a terrible analogy but at that moment on the train tracks,
It made a lot of sense to me maybe it's just some kind of natural balance,
Like 2 types of mental gender that's gone on in all societies,
In one form or another like some dicks were born to conquer,
I probably would if I could but if i'm just a pussy, that's okay
Cause in a few months maybe, I'll put out something good...."

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Stories of alien visitations from the oldest of kingdoms. "...are not all these things for our own memories, and too much and too many to be recited here?" - William Prime